Our Queer Somewhere

“The escape to our nowhere is our shared somewhere” – Karen Tongson, Author of Relocations: Queer Suburban Imaginaries

At our annual Adjust Your Lens conference we opened with an incredible panel of keynote speakers. Ryan Persadie, LLana James, and Alison Baine. I wanted to share my personal reflection on this theme of center versus the periphery that Alison touched upon in sharing her research on queer suburbs in Canada.

For the past couple weeks, I have spent my weekday driving onto the freeway to my workplace in Brampton. It was only this past summer where I was living in downtown Toronto finishing grad school. Not only have I moved out of the city, but I moved back in with my parents. This disjuncture in terms of my past and present location (urban versus the suburban) would often to be interpreted as a kind of queer fall from grace. I now have some distance to what is considered to be the epicenter of queer life and culture in Canada. It would be expected that I frame my current post grad school suburban life as an unfortunate footnote in my life story. I would have to reassure urban queers that I will be back in the city, as if the one and only destination for all queers is the metropolis.

I believe the suburban holds out surprises that are lost and unimaginable when it is written off as hopelessly heterosexual. Accounting for the unexpected allows us to shift how we view and talk about queer life beyond the city.

It is in my own relocation that I have gained a deeper appreciation for the ways that queers navigate the contradictions of home, family, and community. I suggest that many of us queers who live in the suburbs and/or with our parents are exemplars of the creativity and resilience in our community. We exist outside the normative narrative of growth that requires we get out and never look back. In our everyday negotiations in the home and or the public we not only make life liveable but, enjoyable.

The longer I live and work in the context of Peel the more I am attuned to different ways of seeing and recognizing our creative practices and the ways we carve out spaces of belonging. For myself, eating Korean food and walking my dog is as much a part of my day as attending a queer and trans book club at the Brampton Library. I have learned to live with contradiction.

While saying this, I acknowledge my own privilege that allows me to consider my family as a place of ambivalence. While it is filled with trauma, failure, and disappointment it is a still a place where I can return to, for some this is simply impossible. I want to resist romanticizing biological family and the suburban life but recognize that for many of us it is simply a part of our queerness and should not be dismissed. If we can get beyond seeing queerness as only oriented towards the city, we can appreciate ourselves and our practices of worldmaking. While Peel may be deemed as a ‘nowhere’ it is still our queer somewhere.

Sam Yoon (He/Him), 2SLGBTQ+ Training and Capacity Coordinator, Moyo Health & Community Services

On Nov. 14th we gathered at the Peel Art Gallery, Museum, + Archives for our monthly Safer Spaces event. The activity this week was print making for Trans Awareness week! Below you will find the final pieces accompanied by the voices of trans leaders, activists, and community members.

“No pride for some of us without liberation for all of us” – Marsha P. Johnson
“All trans kids deserve to be happy” – Jazz Jennings
“May your rage inform your actions, and your actions transform you as you struggle to transform your world.” – Susan Stryker
“It is revolutionary for any trans person to choose to be seen and visible in a world that tells us we should not exist” – Laverne Cox
“Let’s be gentle with ourselves and each other and fierce as we fight oppression.” – Dean Spade
“I followed the trail out of the room, invigorated by the possibility of reinventing my own body. The meaning was mine, as long as I was with those who had the vision and vocabulary to understand my creation.” — Nick Krieger
“Transitioning takes time and is different for every person” – Community Member

Check out this exciting research project led by the Queering Canadian Suburbs Research Team! There is an opportunity to be involved in a focus group and earn a $30 honorarium.

Brampton: Four Corners Library Branch (Boardroom) Brampton library, 65 Queen St. East

  • October 19th (2:30pm to 4:30pm)
  • October 20th (10:30am to 12:30pm)

Mississauga: Mississauga Central Library Second floor program room, 301 Burnhamthorpe Rd. West

  • October 19th (10:30am to 12:30pm)
  • October 20th (2:30pm to 4:30pm)

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